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Honest to God #4 …dressing down for America…

11 Jan

We can all agree that these are difficult economic times. Four years ago, many of us hoped that Barack Obama would be the President who could turn our country around. We hoped he would eliminate the petty partisan bickering that had for so long stifled any genuine political change in the United States. We hoped that he might somehow lessen our national debt, improve our job possibilities, and solidify our shaky economy.

His election was akin to a religious frenzy. But that religious-like fervor has passed…and we still have difficult economic times. It is no surprise that the Republican Party is now frantically searching for the political savior that Obama failed to be.

I’ve personally found the recent Republican campaign antics to be a ridiculously futile attempt of wealthy politicians to relate to the American middle class, let alone to our country’s poor. Some of us still smile at the memory of Mother Teresa gingerly fingering the lapel of President Ronald Reagan’s suit. “Mr. President,” she noticed, “you paid too much for this suit.”

Are we Americans so naive as to overlook the fact that all of our politicians paid too much for their suits? I suppose that’s why we see them sporting jeans and open collar shirts on the campaign trail. I suppose that’s why Michele Bachmann, Rick Perry, Rick Santorum, Tim Pawlenty, Newt Gingrich, Ron Paul, and Herman Cain all exaggerate their humble beginnings. Even the wealthy Jon Huntsman and Mitt Romney claim they understand the pain of being poor, since their ancestors were poor…back in the day.

Wake up America. All of our politicians paid too much for their suits. And they all dress down in a feeble attempt to feign camaraderie with the rest of us. There is no conceivable way that Newt Gingrich, who receives $60,000 per speech, can even remotely understand what it feels like to be poor.

I refuse to ever accept as a political savior, anyone who has to dress down in an attempt to relate to me. I refuse to accept as a political savior, anyone who was not born in a stable, amongst the stench and dirt of reality. My savior was more poor than wealthy, more refugee than ruler, more ridiculed than elected.

My savior didn’t have to dress down to relate to me. And for what it’s worth…my savior was more political than any Republican or Democrat will ever be.

 
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Honest to God #3…when faith and hope are lost…

04 Jan

His son is an adorable little boy…a precious gift from God. Like most little boys, his son is sweet and loving one minute…yet uncontrollably mischievous the next.

But his son is not like most other little boys. His son was born with a chromosomal deficiency which results in autism, ADHD, obsessive compulsive disorder, sensory processing disorder, speech delay, and countless behavioral challenges. His son is not like most other little boys, since there are only 300 other children in the world with this disorder.

It is no surprise that his faith and hope seem lost. It’s hard to have faith in a God who allows such things as chromosomal deficiencies. It’s hard to grasp that single thread of hope, when a steel cable seems vital for a family’s survival.

I’ve personally learned not to blame God for what some wrongly consider to be “mistakes” of nature. My friend’s son is not a mistake…he’s a miracle. I believe in a God who created the world through evolution. And I find it absolutely amazing that the cells, chromosomes, and DNA strains that God created have combined and evolved into these miraculous beings we call human.

Obviously, over the evolving generations some anomalies and abnormalities have occurred. It is up to each of us as to whether we consider these anomalies to be miracles or mistakes. (I might ask if Elizabeth Taylor’s violet eyes were a mistake…since violet eyes are more of an anomaly than autism.) My friend’s son is a miracle…to consider him as anything else would be a mistake.

I don’t worry about my friend’s fragile thread of faith…surely God understands the frustration and concerns which continually flood the caregivers of special needs children. I worry about his desperate need for hope. His son’s chromosomal deficiency is not some silly phrase that will be outgrown in time. The deficiency is lifelong. The medical community doesn’t offer much hope. The educational community struggles to offer guidance and hope, but funds are sorely lacking.

My friend has promised to read this posting. I’m sure he anticipates my providing him with more hope than I’ve been able to provide here. Maybe you have a few words of hope to share with him. If so…please comment. He’ll be waiting…

 
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…an after-Christmas tradition…

01 Jan

I remember an old friend who had a wonderful after-Christmas tradition. Every year, before the Christmas tree was unceremoniously undecorated, he’d spend a few hours sitting by the lit tree reflecting upon his life.

During this quiet time of reflection, he’d consider all the people who’d passed through his life…all the individuals who’d had a positive impact upon him. Then, each year, he’d select one of those persons to whom he’d write a letter of gratitude.

Several times he wrote to different school teachers, at one time to a Boy Scout leader, at still another time to a basketball teammate from high school. Once he wrote to a former employer who’d overlooked several flaws, and offered him a second chance.

Four years ago he wrote to me. He mentioned several conversations we’d had many years ago. He thanked me for things I’d said…things I don’t remember saying…things I probably didn’t really say…but things he somehow attributed to me nonetheless.

No one could ever know how much his note of friendship and appreciation meant to me. His words were a lifeline to a drowning man.

I thought about him tonight. I wondered if tonight is the night he’ll be basking in the Christmas tree lights. I wondered which friend he’ll select this year…who will be the fortunate recipient of his gratitude. Yes, I thought about him tonight…and about the impact his after-Christmas tradition had upon me several years back.

Our Christmas tree is still up…so I still have time to adopt his tradition as my own. If your tree is still decorated, maybe you’d care to join him too.

 
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Honest to God #2…financial priorities…

25 Oct

…financial priorities…

I just listened to Pat Robertson dole out some rather cold, apathetic advice to one of his listeners. The young wife and mother had written to ask Robertson for guidance with her family finances. She and her family had apparently tithed, but they were having trouble following through with their pledge to the church. She wrote that their tithe was preventing her from paying the family bills. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IrfD4wLz3yo).

Robertson spoke with great compassion in his voice and concern on his face…but his advice was cold and severe. He explained that her family had obviously mismanaged their budget, and suggested that they move to a smaller house or buy a cheaper car. He went on to explain that her family could never expect to receive God’s blessings without first giving God10% of their income.

Although Robertson was quoting the biblical text correctly, I found his advice to be appalling! He was using the scripture to beat down a woman who was already struggling to make ends meet; and scripture should never be used as a weapon.

My reading of the Bible, finds Jesus breaking religious laws whenever they might have otherwise prevented him from providing aid and comfort to those who were suffering.

I find myself wondering…what if the young mother had approached Jesus, rather than the Rev. Robertson? I doubt that Jesus would have lectured her on the value of tithing.

HONEST TO GOD…I think Jesus would have helped the young family with their bills.

 
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HONEST TO GOD #1 …a river without banks…

03 Oct

HONEST TO GOD
From time to time, I’d like to use my blog as a venue to share my own personal theological and political thoughts. If you’re not interested in these posts (and who would blame you!) please feel free to ignore those classified as “Honest to God.” And if you have questions or suggestions, please comment…discussion can be fun and enlightening.

HONEST TO GOD #1
…a river without banks…

A proverbial saying declares that “a river without banks is a swamp.” The image is quite vivid I suppose, for those who live near the Mississippi River and who have seen their farmland turned into a swamp by demolished levies.

Some might consider my progressively liberal theology to be a murky, muddy swamp-like spiritual pool. But I still have some banks alongside my theological river; but they’re further apart than they were in my younger years. My banks have been established by lifetime of struggles and conflicts…they are definitely not some sort of denominationally built canal.

I’ve listed here, a few of my banks. I invite you to read them, and to consider if they might be similar to yours. I also invite you to comment upon them. I’m not claiming to be “right,” so you just might make a comment that causes me to reconsider my stance.

Anyway…these things I believe:
• God loves all people, without exception.
• To follow God’s example we must forgiving and show mercy to others.
• Social justice and civil rights matter.
• God still speaks through the Bible, through other literary works, through people and through nature.
• War is not the solution to international conflicts.
• What we believe, is less important than how we treat others.

I don’t claim to be right…I’m just trying to be HONEST TO GOD.

 
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…completely numb…

07 Sep

This weekend marks the 10th anniversary of the 9/11 terrorist attacks upon our country.

Like nearly everyone else, I remember that day quite vividly. I was glued to the television set in the church office. I wasn’t angry or frightened, like most of the staff. I was numb…completely numb.

We immediately planned a worship service for that night. The congregation began arriving early. We read a few scriptures. We said a few prayers. But mostly we just sat there in the safety of our sanctuary. I remember thinking, “this is why a place of worship is called a sanctuary.”

The church was left unlocked for several days so neighbors could come for pray. Candles were given out and people were encouraged to sit on their front porches with candles lit.

The following Sunday mornings boasted a better than average worship attendance. I suppose nothing encourages church attendance like being on the verge of war.

But that was all 10 years ago. And it is with mixed emotions that I now prepare to not celebrate the 9/11 anniversary. The church near our house is planning a huge “celebration” which includes a BBQ, an honor guard, a bouncy house for the kids, and a professional fireworks display.

I’ll not join in the festivities. Somehow a BBQ, a bouncy house for the kids, and a professional fireworks display seems uniquely inappropriate…as a response to the deaths of 2,977 victims.

I think I’ll just stay home. Maybe I’ll light a few candles…and remember how it felt to be completely numb.

 
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…I’m just a bagger…

26 Aug

When Barbara Glanz gave a motivational speech on customer service to 3,000 employees of a large grocery chain, she had no idea the degree to which she would inspire Johnny. As Johnny later said, “I’m a bagger at the grocery store and I have Down syndrome. What can I do? I’m just a bagger.”

But Barbara had inspired Johnny! Since Johnny loved quotes and sayings, he decided to pick out a favorite saying each day. Johnny’s dad printed the daily quotes on strips of paper and Johnny signed the back of each slip. As Johnny bagged a customer’s groceries, he’d drop the note in one of the bags and say, “I hope you enjoy my quote of the day.”

It wasn’t long before the store manager noticed that there was always a line at the checkout lane where Johnny bagged the groceries. When additional lanes were opened, most customers insisted on staying in Johnny’s lane. In fact, one lady said, “I used to come to the store once a week and now I come two or three times a week just to see the smile on his face when he drops in his favorite quote!”

Granted, Johnny was just a bagger at the local grocery. But he had a powerfully positive impact upon the people he met each day. You and I…we too can brighten the lives of those we encounter on a daily basis.

 
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Remains #4

22 Aug

…problems and solutions…

She spoke the words with such confidence that I knew she had committed them to memory. It was also apparent that she had a lifetime of experiences with which to back them up. She spoke with so much assurance…that I knew it best to savor her words so that I might later share them with others. And what were these words that she spoke so matter-of-factly?

“All my problems are emotional…all my solutions are spiritual.”

She was right, of course. Nearly every problem I’ve ever encountered was in reality, rooted in my emotions. My financial problems are largely the result of impulsive, emotional purchases.
And I surely would have had a more lucrative career, if I’d only admitted and corrected my character flaws when they first became evident.

Others will readily agree that I wouldn’t have had most of my problem relationships, were it not for my being self-centered, jealous, or greedy. Yes, she was right…all my problems were emotional.

And she was also right that all my solutions are spiritual. When problems rear their ugly heads, all I have to do is remind myself that I’m God’s child, God’s image, God’s representative. When I do so, it’s amazing how quickly I realize that the other person is also God’s child, God’s image, God’s representative. With such realization, comes peace and understanding.

She had every right to speak those words with confidence, since she was right on target. All my problems are emotional…all my solutions are spiritual.

 
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If You Are Interested . . .

21 Aug

A few people have asked for a simple way to listen to the sermons I preach at New Song Church here in St. Louis. You can usually access them at our church’s website, www.newsongstl.org, but I will also post them here from time to time. This one is part of a current series about Paul in the New Testament. It is titled Paul & the Lost. 001_A_088_Aug 6_Sermon

 
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…my soon to be released diet book…

14 Aug

Several months back, one of my facebook friends posted that she had run 6.2 miles. She then boasted that during her run she had burned 841 calories. My first thought upon considering her statistics, was that I need to write a diet book.

Her post brought to me clarity rarely experienced by the dieting world. Her statistics brought the whole dieting / exercising regimen into sharp focus. It’s time for me to write a book…a diet book that sets free those being held captive in a calorie counting world.

Although I’m an open minded individual, a person who rarely judges the decisions and actions of others, it seems obvious to me that my running friend is wasting her energy. Why in the world would any sensible human being run 6.2 miles just to burn 841 calories?

This is not to say however, that I couldn’t stand to lose 841 calories. In reality I would definitely benefit from losing said number of calories. I would benefit from losing that number of calories every day…for many, many days. But to run 6.2 miles… for a measly 841 calories? Not on your life!

To my way of thinking, I’d be “burnt calories” ahead to simply NOT EAT A BIG MAC every day. You see, a Big Mac claims to be 910 calories. This means that if I refuse to eat a daily Big Mac, during that same time that my friend is running her daily 6.2 miles…I will in some ways, be burning 69 more calories than her.

As I now ponder the words I’ve just written, I think it best draw this article to a close. It makes no sense to give away such wisdom for free. This is a diet book that will sell!!

 
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